A guide to find your Life-Partner Online?

All you need is a calming presence of a loved one by your side at all difficult phases of life. Someone who always will be there for you, who motivates you when you feel low, and accepts you is a life partner you certainly need by your side forever. Love is a way in which a true connection occurs however finding a true-life partner is quite challenging. You often will hear people say "It takes time or is a difficult process" but once you obtain them, it will be an exciting moment with an enigmatic feeling. There can be many factors that can make it tough to find a true soulmate. Now, matrimonial sites have opened up plenty of options that were not available earlier. Distance won't be a hindrance if you pull up some courage to "log in" at www.humandtum.com the most trusted matrimonial website. The best thing about humandtum.com is, you can decide about your true mate without having to trouble your parents or blindly trusting the marriage brokers. You can choose depending on various aspects like social status, likes, dislikes, income, religion, social status, geographical location, second marriage, etc. 

 

Matrimonial sites are a boon, especially to working professionals in India who are seeking a bride or a groom. " I wanted to stay in the city I grew up, stay close to my parents. So was looking for someone who would or is settled in Bangalore which was the main criteria for searching. And finally found my soulmate who matched my criteria." says Anshu Gupta, a professional dancer.

 

Japneet Kaur, a retired ISRO employee says matrimonial websites are more reasonably priced compared to the marriage brokers. Her daughter found her life partner through humandtum.com, is blissfully married for 6 years now, and has a wonderful kid now.

 

However, online matrimonial websites do have their own set of issues that might sometimes give you an unpleasant experience. You may need honest feedback from those who already have benefited from online matrimonial platforms. 

 

There are these below-mentioned ways that will help you find your life partner online and make the best of what matrimonial websites offer. 

 

  1. There are a variety of matrimonial sites available online. Choose the one that matches your preferences and allows you to search for your partner based on various criteria.
  2. Go through all the pages on the website, read the FAQs that wi give an idea about the matchmaking process of that site. This will also tell you about the privacy features and security of your info. You may get websites that have strict privacy features applied to photos, contact numbers, and mail ids.
  3. Once you feel the site is safe, you can register online.
  4. If you are serious about the proposals, upload your picture as people would first filter seeing the profiles with photos. Ensure there is a privacy setting on this feature.
  5. Be frank about listing your likes and interests. If you pretend you may end up with a wrong selection.
  6. Be honest about your information on status, education, income(optional), profession, etc. else, it may lead to unwanted inquiries.
  7. Check the authenticity of your photo from the website, and verify your phone number from the website so that it's easy for further communications and to receive match alerts. 
  8. Mention your preferences like education, height, religion, etc. You may opt for email or SMS alerts.
  9. Make use of the filter options to get a list matching your preferences and wait patiently for the response.

 

Memberships:

There are various membership plans available to choose from. Free membership only allows you to view the photo and profile summary. A paid membership allows you to view a detailed profile and send a chat message and more if you are interested in the profile. 

If you want to send your contact details and a personal message, you will have to be a paid member. You can opt for premium membership also. With premium membership, you can avail of a personal manager's assistance, daily match alerts, and your profile will be highlighted and appear on the top when someone is looking for a bride or groom matching your interest, education, caste, etc.

 

According to humandtum.com, there is a 7-8% increase in the number of members every month. 

 

We understand that it's a precarious process finding your special someone among a whole lot of profiles, some may be fake sometimes. It's intuition and alertness that will prevent you from falling prey to swindlers. Take your time, spend time with them, and make time for yourself. Commit carefully as love can't be rushed.

  11th October, 2021