Nikah ko Asaan Karo .. request by ..Hum&Tum Matrimony
🎤🎯IMPORTANT - Matchmakers job is not only to Exchange Profiles but also to educate and impress the parents about the hardships faced by us owing to a long List Of Expectations from the Parents of the Would Be Bride's and Would Be Groom's. In this case you have to play the Role Of A Good Counseler.
FROM MATCHMAKERS POINT OF VIEW:
Sawdhan Parents:
Allah (SWT) jiss tarah tumhe paida kiya ek behtreen Surat se, ussi tarah tumhare bacchon ko bhi paide kiya tumhare zariya se either Male or Female. Aapne apne bachoan Ko acchi education aur deeni taali mat bhi di. Lekin ye sab tab kaam aate hai jab aapke bacche apni Seerat Ko bhi duniya aur aakhirat ko equal importance de ke apna kirdaar is duniya mein buland kare.
In Short - " Surat Allah Ki Dyen - Seerat Bande Ki " Which Makes A Successful Marriage we MATCHMAKERS as well as Well Wishers are only a ZARIYA to find a match.
FROM A RELIGIOUS 🧕BRIDE'S POINT OF VIEW:
Her Desire is to have a Handsome, Good Physique, Rich & Lastly religious Boy with clean habits.
🧍♂ FROM A RELIGIOUS GROOM'S
POINT OF VIEW:
His desire is to have a Beautiful, Obidient and Religious Girl following Shariah.
Take away points:-
Jab Allah (SWT) by default jiss tarah ki surat deke iss duniya mein bhej ta hai why this Worldly conditions are attached in a marriage because Beauty in woman and Handsome in a Boy are the predominant criteria.
Does this not prove "Nikah Ko Aasan Karo".
We Brothers & Sisters in Islam say Allah Muqaddar Ka Joda Banake Bhejata hai, sub uski marji. While they are Silent on their Criteria (Farmaish) in getting their Wards Married off and get rid of their burden for which they are answerable in their Aaki rah. Nowhere in Islam it is proved that Allah has created a Doctor for a Doctor and an Engineer for an Engineer to get married in this World. Just Ponder Upon - This is one of the Worst Imposition By Parents in prolonging a Marriage of their Children.
🎤Presume this as a Debate - Polite, Meaningful, Positive, but also Negative, Harsh But Fruitful Thoughts/Comments Most Welcome. Let's all try to get into this subject as a BURNING ISSUE AND A MISSION to prove ourselves ke hamne NIKAAH KO AASAN KIYA.
🤲🏻May Allah Guide Us All to enlighten our minds and lead a Exemplary Islamic Life Aameen!
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Shall appreciate if someone could translate this in Urdu or any other local language in which they are proficient, this will help us to spread This Message in the most easiest way to understand the Subject.
